Saturday, September 17, 2011
If you dont have anything nice to say dont say anything at all!!!
SO I am telling everyone if you have nothing nice to say, I mean I can care lass what mean things you have to say anyways but if you dont then dont say anything at all OK stay off my page stop posting things on phatmass and everything OK! And let me say this so WHAT I came back not a big deal. Like I said before act like Jesus not the one He sent to Hell.
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Not a big deal? It IS a big deal when you act like this Carmelite nun who deserves everyone's adoration. You know what you've been doing? Building a cult of "followers", broadcasting your holy ambitions. Honestly, think about it, is a Carmelite vocation about fostering notoriety for yourself? You need to take at least a little responsibility for the way things have turned out. You're bound to attract different opinions when you boast so openly about your so-called acceptance into a community. And seriously, if your vocation can't withstand other people's second-guessing, then it ain't so strong huh? You got a lot of growing up to do, I can tell you that. There are lots of us out there who are older than you by the decades, and we haven't lived all that time for nothing. You need to LISTEN, not just to those who think they're doing you good by telling you everything you wanna hear.
Ha, so everyone who "opposes" you is the Devil huh? Hmm, that smells like MAJOR pride, like you think you're so holy and inviolable? In your dreams. In the reality where the rest of us live, we're subject to others' criticism, ok? When you say you can't care less about what people say, when they're not to your liking, it rings major alarm bells for me. Like you won't listen to anyone who's not on your side or whatever. EPIC problem. I used to like you, I thought you were really something and now I really doubt it.
YO, Brandee, quit acting so defensive. It's reallly not to your advantage. What? So if we don't have nothin' nice to say we should just shut our mouths? Yeah, that's exactly what you need. Evrybody telling ya what a great job you've been doin', when all you've really been doin' is acting like you're the shit. Like u r the holiest girl and you ain't never comin back. GUESS AGAIN, here U R, so act a lil humble sista. Ain't nothin but a fake ass poser.
Brandee, let me just say this: I've always supported you and I applauded you for going after your dreams. And really, all these negative comments are very discouraging, I must say. But, hard as it is to admit, I must say there's a teensy weensy bit of truth to these comments. You need to consider what went wrong for you and why it is that some people think of you as this idealistic immature girl who may have romanticized the religious life. It pains me to say this but I hope you understand. You should've tempered yourself before acting so certain about entering....then maybe you would've avoided this backlash. It's all very unfortunate. Take care.
LizzieOcd I just want to say all of these negative comments and I mean every last one of them are from one person. Note how all of the negative comments were one after the other, within a few minutes of each other. First read BiteMe's comment, and then read all of the others and see how much they all sound alike. So I'm not going to say anything to her. I know in my heart I have done nothing wrong. When I make my videos, I tell the world how much I am in love with our Lord. So, if someone doesn't like what I'm saying, then they shouldn't watch my videos.
Well, Carmeliteblogger, as much as you want to believe that it's all just negative comments from one person, it's not necessarily true. This IS the internet and people post from all over the world, all the time. So it's not that surprising to get comments one after the other. Especially when you've "promoted" yourself on various websites. Not judging, just stating a fact. HOpe you understand.
Nobody said you did anything wrong. But people are gonna pass judgement just because you put yourself out there so publicly. Can't just tell ppl to stop watching your videos. They're there and they'll be seen and people have a right to judge them however they like. freedom of speech baby. Sorry if you're too delicate to take it, but that is life, my dear girl.
Oh honey it's ok. I've seen a lot of girls come and go in religious life and they were all set on becoming a nun...then eventually that fades away and they end up getting married and having kids so don't you worry! Ya so you might've spoken a little too soon about entering but so what? you're young, use your time to explore what life has to offer.
Um i just watched your "i was accepted" video on youtube and you acted so sure of yourself and you definitely promoted yourself as a definite candidate of that community of yours. So don't act all surprised when people question you about all that. I'm not trying to start a fight and I have nothing against you personally, but beware of accidentally "false advertising" yourself as something you're not...since it invites backlash. Because people like to point out your mistakes, especially when it's out in the open. I personally have learned my lesson over the years. So just...beware.
Didn't anyone read the posts on the other blog topic? Go away if you don't have anything nice to say. The poster has NEVER acted holier-than-thou or selfish and yet, here you are again, bashing and criticizing. I said it before and I'll say it again -- DISCERNMENT IS NOT A CUT-AND-DRY PROCESS! All of the posts on here from "different people" are one and the same. The tone is EXACTLY the same. I don't know if you have multiple personalities or what, but you seriously need some help.
To the OP, I am praying for you.
Oh, and I have one more thing to add. I want to know why everyone thinks that the OP falsely advertised herself as being accepted by this community? It was HER decision to enter but the community was ready to take her. That's what is so strange to me. Why in the world are people criticizing nuns who have openly accepted the OP? Are you that much better than God that you know what He wants? Get over yourself!
To the OP, I think it's time you shut down the blog and turned off the YouTube page. I really think you need to tune these negative "people" (though I believe it is only one person) out for good. At least turn the comments off so they can't bash you anymore. Obviously, none of them are ever going to be quiet.
I'm not joining in on this fight but seriously, one has to "go away" if one has nothing "nice" to say? So people can't disagree on anything? Wow...
Can't we agree to disagree? Everyone deserves to be heard. We all need to hear opinions from "the other side" if we ever hope to learn anything.
I honestly believe that this negativity is ridiculous. There is a way to get your view across without being nasty and critical. I am not saying that you need to be quiet or agree with everything the OP is saying. But learn to show some respect! All these posts do is reflect pride. I wonder if any one of you has ever met the OP in real life? Do you know her personally? I seriously doubt it...
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